Is she a glass half-full kind of person? Or does he have a tendency to ruminate about negative things? And what triggers her happiness or unhappiness?Īnd how do you know? What was it like for you? This is useful for gauging how positive and upbeat your new friend is. Whether it's seeing a longed-for tourist landmark or just spending the day with a group of closest friends, nothing says more about you than how you choose to spend your time…especially when that time is limited. If You Knew You Would Die Tomorrow, How Would You Spend Today? Like the question about what you're ashamed of, the answer to this one speaks volumes about a person's weaknesses, and what he is trying to do to conquer them. If You Could Change One Thing About Yourself, What Would It Be And Why? But what exactly are those true colors? You can either wait until the next time she drinks a little too much…or you can just ask straight out. Often, the loss of inhibition leads us to show our true colors. Tell Me About Something You Did When You Were Drunk That You've Never Confessed To Anyone. Maybe they would be fine filthy rich with just a pet by their side. It gives you an understanding of how much he may be willing to give to make a relationship or a friendship work. This is another question which speaks volumes about this person's priorities. Would You Rather Be Rich And Lonely Or Financially Destitute With Lots Of Great Family And Friends? Why? The answer will reveal much about what she considers to be right and wrong ways of treating others, and tells you what you can expect in the course of the friendship.ĭo You Think It's Possible For Men And Women To Be "Just Friends?"Įspecially in cross-gender friendships, it's helpful to know exactly what the person's friendship goals are…or are not. Have You Ever Treated A Person In A Way That You Regret?Īnd related to that: What would you do differently if given a chance? It may explain many decisions and behaviors as the friendship progresses that would otherwise be mysterious. This offers valuable insight into the person's past. What Event In Your Life Has Shaped You Most As A Person, And How Did It Do So? It also reveals what personality qualities your new friend values. This question brings out hidden personality characteristics and can show a lot about a person. Sometimes appearances are deceiving especially on social media. What's One Thing That You Wish People Understood About You? Maybe they have a lot of good memories from when they were a kid, such as birthdays or sports, but they haven't opened up about how they were raised. This tells you about the challenges a person is facing, and how these challenges affect him.ĭo You Think Your Parents Did A Good Job Raising You While You Were Growing Up? Why Or Why Not?Ī person's childhood gives a lot of information about who they are…but not nearly as much as their feelings about that childhood. What Difference Would It Make In Your Life If You Felt Completely Safe, Accepted, And Loved? Where does this person want to go in life? What country do they want to buy a house in if they could go anywhere? And can you see yourself being part of that story? Do their wishes align with your own? This question is aimed at finding something deep in them, not something like changing the numbers on their lottery ticket or the name their parents gave them.
The answer will tell you how this person has changed over time, and how her values and beliefs have shifted. If You Could Go Back And Change One Decision In Your Life, What Would It Be? This allows you both to take looks into how they are trying to better themselves. This question requires an honest look at someone's mistakes, as well as the sincerity of their efforts to improve themselves. Others may have wishes for things they could be proud of in the future. Others might put more value on relationships with friends and family. What does this person value? Some people might consider their job performance to be their biggest achievement. 25 Questions to Help You Get to Know Someone Deeply
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